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The Book of 1 Peter

Chapter 3: A Reason of the Hope

First Peter 3 applies the gospel to marriage, to the whole church, and to suffering. Wives are to win even unbelieving husbands 'by the conversation of the wives,' adorned not with outward finery but with 'the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.' Husbands are to 'dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife.' All believers are to 'be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of another,' repaying evil with blessing. Then, facing hostility, Peter gives one of the New Testament's great charges: 'sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear.' He grounds it in the cross: 'Christ also hath once suffered for sins, the just for the unjust, that he might bring us to God,' and points to Noah's flood as a figure of baptism, 'baptism doth also now save us... by the resurrection of Jesus Christ.' This chapter shows us a gentle, hope-filled, gospel-shaped life under pressure.

About This Commentary

This is a verse-by-verse study of 1 Peter chapter 3. For each section you will find the KJV text, the Greek words that sharpen the meaning, plain explanation, and a Gospel Focus. Here Peter instructs husbands and wives, calls the whole church to unity and blessing, and charges believers to be ready to give a reason for their hope, grounding it in Christ's suffering and the salvation pictured in baptism. Every Scripture quotation is from the King James Version.

Setting the Stage

The Home

A Meek and Quiet Spirit

Inner beauty of great price before God.

The Church

Blessing for Railing

Of one mind, repaying evil with blessing.

The Witness

A Reason of the Hope

Sanctify the Lord God; give an answer with meekness.

The Cross

The Just for the Unjust

Christ suffered to bring us to God; baptism saves.

Gospel in the Home and Church

The Ornament of a Meek and Quiet Spirit (1 Peter 3:1-12)

Wives and husbands honor one another in the Lord, and the whole church lives in unity and blessing, repaying evil with good.

1 Peter 3:1-12

Not Rendering Evil for Evil, but Contrariwise Blessing

"Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: Even as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement. Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered. Finally, be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of another, love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous: Not rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing: but contrariwise blessing; knowing that ye are thereunto called, that ye should inherit a blessing. For he that will love life, and see good days, let him refrain his tongue from evil, and his lips that they speak no guile: Let him eschew evil, and do good; let him seek peace, and ensue it. For the eyes of the Lord are over the righteous, and his ears are open unto their prayers: but the face of the Lord is against them that do evil."

Word Study

"meek," Greek praus (πραΰς). The word means meek, gentle, mild; it does not mean weak, but strength held under control, power harnessed and gentled. "The ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price." Peter contrasts two kinds of adornment: the outward, "plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel," which is passing and corruptible, and the inward, "the hidden man of the heart," which is "not corruptible." The jewel God prizes is "a meek and quiet spirit." The word praus, "meek," is the same word Jesus used of Himself, "I am meek and lowly in heart" (Matthew 11:29), and in the Beatitude, "Blessed are the meek" (Matthew 5:5); it is not spinelessness but a gentle, submissive strength that trusts God rather than grasping and fighting for its own way. Paired with "quiet" (a calm, tranquil, undisturbed spirit), it describes a soul at rest in God, gentle toward others, unruffled by circumstances. And Peter says this inner beauty is "in the sight of God of great price", literally very costly, precious. What the world spends fortunes to put on the outside, God treasures on the inside. So praus teaches that true, lasting beauty is not applied to the surface but grown in the heart, a gentle, God-trusting, tranquil spirit, which is of great price in the sight of God.

Explanation

Peter counsels wives to win even disobedient husbands "without the word," by "chaste conversation coupled with fear," adorned not outwardly but with "the hidden man of the heart... a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price." Husbands are to "dwell with them according to knowledge," honoring the wife as a fellow "heir together of the grace of life," lest their prayers be hindered. Then a word to all: "be ye all of one mind, having compassion," and "not rendering evil for evil... but contrariwise blessing." He seals it with Psalm 34: "he that will love life... let him refrain his tongue from evil... seek peace, and ensue it."

Gospel Focus

Peter applies the gospel first to marriage. Wives are counseled that even an unbelieving husband, one who "obey not the word," may "without the word be won by the conversation of the wives", won not by argument but by the silent sermon of a godly, "chaste conversation coupled with fear." And their true beauty is to be inward: "not that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold," but "the hidden man of the heart... the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price." This is not a ban on all ornament, but a call to prize the inner beauty God treasures above the outer. Peter points to "the holy women... who trusted in God," like Sarah, as models. Then husbands are charged, "dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life." The husband is to live with understanding and honor, treating his wife as a fellow heir of eternal life, and Peter adds a striking warning: failure here means "that your prayers be not hindered." How a man treats his wife affects his fellowship with God. Then Peter widens to the whole church: "be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of another, love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous." Unity, sympathy, tenderness, and courtesy are to mark God's people. And in a hostile world, believers are called to a radical response: "not rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing: but contrariwise blessing." We do not repay insult with insult but with blessing, "knowing that ye are thereunto called, that ye should inherit a blessing." We were called to bless, and blessing others is the path to inheriting God's blessing. Peter seals it with Scripture from Psalm 34: those who would "love life, and see good days" must "refrain the tongue from evil," "eschew evil, and do good," and "seek peace, and ensue it," for "the eyes of the Lord are over the righteous, and his ears are open unto their prayers." So the gospel shapes every relationship, home and church alike: gentle, honoring, unified, and returning blessing for evil, under the watchful, hearing eyes of the Lord.

Hope Under Suffering

Sanctify the Lord God in Your Hearts (1 Peter 3:13-22)

Ready to give a reason for their hope, believers suffer for well-doing after the pattern of Christ, who suffered once for sins to bring us to God.

1 Peter 3:13-22

Baptism Doth Also Now Save Us

"And who is he that will harm you, if ye be followers of that which is good? But and if ye suffer for righteousness' sake, happy are ye: and be not afraid of their terror, neither be troubled; But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear: Having a good conscience; that, whereas they speak evil of you, as of evildoers, they may be ashamed that falsely accuse your good conversation in Christ. For it is better, if the will of God be so, that ye suffer for well doing, than for evil doing. For Christ also hath once suffered for sins, the just for the unjust, that he might bring us to God, being put to death in the flesh, but quickened by the Spirit: By which also he went and preached unto the spirits in prison; Which sometime were disobedient, when once the longsuffering of God waited in the days of Noah, while the ark was a preparing, wherein few, that is, eight souls were saved by water. The like figure whereunto even baptism doth also now save us (not the putting away of the filth of the flesh, but the answer of a good conscience toward God,) by the resurrection of Jesus Christ: Who is gone into heaven, and is on the right hand of God; angels and authorities and powers being made subject unto him."

Word Study

"an answer," Greek apologia (ἀπολογία). The word means a defense, a reasoned reply, the kind of answer one gives to a formal charge; it is a legal term, and it gives us "apologetics" and "apology" (in its older sense of a defense). "Be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you." Every believer is to be prepared to make an apologia, a reasoned defense, of the Christian hope, not just trained apologists or preachers. Notice several things. First, the readiness is "always" and to "every man", we should never be caught with nothing to say about why we believe. Second, the subject is "the hope that is in you", our confidence in Christ and the life to come, which is meant to be so visible that people ask about it. Third, and vital, the manner: "with meekness and fear." Our defense is not to be arrogant or combative, but gentle and reverent, offered in humility toward people and awe toward God. And it flows from a prior command: "sanctify the Lord God in your hearts", set apart Christ as Lord within, so that He, not fear of men, rules the heart. So apologia calls every believer to be a ready, thoughtful, gentle witness: knowing why we hope, willing to explain it to anyone, and doing so with the meekness and reverence that adorn the gospel we defend.

Explanation

Even if believers "suffer for righteousness' sake," they are "happy," and need not fear. Instead, "sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear." The ground of it all is Christ's own suffering: "Christ also hath once suffered for sins, the just for the unjust, that he might bring us to God." Peter then speaks of the days of Noah and of baptism as "the like figure" that "doth also now save us... by the resurrection of Jesus Christ," who is "gone into heaven," all powers "made subject unto him." Suffering saints follow a Saviour who suffered, rose, and reigns.

Peter's words about Christ preaching "unto the spirits in prison... in the days of Noah" have puzzled many, and some have wrongly drawn from them a second chance of salvation after death. Two readings are held among Bible-believing Christians, and both shut that door. The first: by the same Spirit that "quickened" Him, Christ "preached" long beforehand through Noah to that wicked generation while "the ark was a preparing" -- the men who heard the warning and rejected it are the "spirits" now "in prison," awaiting judgment; the preaching happened in their lifetime, through God's prophet. The second: between His death and resurrection Christ went and proclaimed His triumph to imprisoned fallen spirits -- an announcement of victory over the powers, not an offer of the gospel. Either way, Peter is not teaching that the lost receive a fresh chance beyond the grave, for Scripture is settled: "it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment" (Hebrews 9:27). His real aim is to comfort suffering saints: as Noah's little household was carried safely through the very waters of judgment, so the risen Christ, now "on the right hand of God," brings His people safely through.

Gospel Focus

Peter turns to suffering for doing right. Normally goodness disarms hostility, "who is he that will harm you, if ye be followers of that which is good?", but even when the righteous do suffer, "happy are ye." Believers are not to fear their persecutors' threats. Instead, "sanctify the Lord God in your hearts", enthrone Christ as Lord within, so that reverence for Him, not fear of men, governs the soul. From that settled heart flows readiness to witness: "be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear." Every believer is to be a ready, gentle witness, explaining the hope within, with humility and reverence, backed by "a good conscience" and a blameless life, so that slanderers are "ashamed." And if suffering comes, better to "suffer for well doing, than for evil doing." Then Peter grounds the whole call to endure in the supreme example and atonement: "Christ also hath once suffered for sins, the just for the unjust, that he might bring us to God." The sinless One suffered once for all, the Just for the unjust, to bridge the gulf and bring us home to God. He was "put to death in the flesh, but quickened by the Spirit", His body died, but He was raised in the power of the Spirit. Peter then draws a comparison from Noah's day, when "eight souls were saved by water," passing safely through the flood in the ark. This becomes "the like figure whereunto even baptism doth also now save us." Here Peter speaks plainly of the saving significance of baptism, yet he carefully explains what he means: "not the putting away of the filth of the flesh," it is not mere bodily washing or an outward rite that saves, "but the answer of a good conscience toward God," a heart truly turned to God in faith and obedience, and it saves "by the resurrection of Jesus Christ." Baptism saves not as a magic washing but as the God-appointed act in which faith responds to God with a good conscience, united to the risen Christ. This fits the whole Apostolic pattern of the new birth of water and Spirit (John 3:5; Acts 2:38; Titus 3:5). And the risen Christ is exalted supreme: "gone into heaven, and is on the right hand of God; angels and authorities and powers being made subject unto him." So under suffering we set Christ apart as Lord in our hearts, stand ready to give a gentle reason for our hope, and rest in the One who suffered once for sins to bring us to God, raised, exalted, and reigning over all.

Chapter 3 in Review

First Peter 3 shapes home, church, and witness by the gospel. Wives win even unbelieving husbands by godly conduct and "the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price"; husbands honor their wives "as being heirs together of the grace of life." The whole church is to "be ye all of one mind," "not rendering evil for evil... but contrariwise blessing." Facing hostility, believers "sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear." And Peter grounds it in the cross: "Christ also hath once suffered for sins, the just for the unjust, that he might bring us to God," pointing to Noah's flood as a figure of baptism, which "doth also now save us... by the resurrection of Jesus Christ."

For the Apostolic reader this chapter is rich with practical and doctrinal treasure. It prizes inner beauty over outward show, calls husbands and wives to mutual honor, and marks the church by unity and by blessing those who wrong us. Its great charge, "sanctify the Lord God in your hearts," is Oneness truth in practice: to enthrone the Lord God, who is our Lord Jesus Christ, at the center of the heart, and from that reverence to be ready always to explain our hope with gentleness. And its cross is both atonement and pattern: "the just for the unjust, that he might bring us to God." Peter's word on baptism fits the whole Apostolic gospel: baptism "doth also now save us," not as a mere washing of the body, but as "the answer of a good conscience toward God," faith responding to God and united to the risen Christ, part of the new birth of water and Spirit. So we adorn the hidden heart, honor one another, bless our enemies, hold Christ as Lord within, stand ready to witness with meekness, and rest in the risen, reigning Saviour who suffered once to bring us to God.

Key Takeaways
  • True beauty is "the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price" (3:4).
  • Husbands honor wives as "heirs together of the grace of life," lest prayers be hindered (3:7).
  • Repay evil not with railing "but contrariwise blessing" (3:9).
  • "Sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer" (3:15).
  • "Christ also hath once suffered for sins, the just for the unjust, that he might bring us to God" (3:18).
  • "Baptism doth also now save us... the answer of a good conscience... by the resurrection of Jesus Christ" (3:21).

Questions for Reflection

  • Do you prize "a meek and quiet spirit" above outward adornment?
  • When wronged, do you repay with blessing rather than railing?
  • Have you "sanctified the Lord God" in your heart, and are you ready to give a gentle reason for your hope?
  • Have you responded to God with "a good conscience" in baptism, united to the risen Christ?

References & Sources

Scripture is quoted from the King James Version (KJV). Supporting passages are listed so every claim can be verified in its own setting. Wives, husbands, and the meek and quiet spirit: 1 Peter 3:1-7; Ephesians 5:22-33; 1 Timothy 2:9-10; Genesis 18:12. Unity and repaying evil with blessing: 1 Peter 3:8-12; Romans 12:14-17; Psalm 34:12-16; Matthew 5:44. Sanctifying the Lord God; a reason for the hope: 1 Peter 3:13-16; Isaiah 8:12-13; Colossians 4:6; Matthew 10:28. Christ's suffering and the salvation pictured in baptism: 1 Peter 3:17-22; Genesis 6-7; Acts 2:38; Titus 3:5; John 3:5; Romans 6:3-4. If anything here does not look right, a verse, a reference, or a wording, please tell us at info@FruitBearers.net. Thank you for helping us keep Bible Learning error free.

  1. Wives, husbands, and the meek and quiet spirit: 1 Peter 3:1-7; Ephesians 5:22-33.
  2. Of one mind; blessing for evil: 1 Peter 3:8-12; Romans 12:14-17; Psalm 34:12-16.
  3. Sanctify the Lord God; give a reason for the hope: 1 Peter 3:13-16; Isaiah 8:12-13.
  4. Christ suffered once for sins; baptism now saves us: 1 Peter 3:17-22; Acts 2:38; Titus 3:5.
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